The physical attraction that starts a relationship between men and women is nothing new. In fact, it’s been around since the beginning of time, I mean how else have we established a population of over 7 billion people? The only thing that changes over time is what men and women find attractive in each other. Now, what you need to understand is that men are visual creatures. We use our eyes to make decisions way before our hearts and minds even get a moment to breathe. This is why physical attraction is crucial to men when looking for a female partner. This doesn’t mean that physical attraction is the only thing that matters, it just simply means that it’s an important factor that is going to affect your dating life as a woman looking for male partners.
Physical attraction includes but isn’t limited to your face, your body, the way you present yourself and the clothes you wear. The key thing is that when you first meet a man, or even if you’re seeing him for a second or third time for whatever reason, he’s going to be seeing you clothed.
That’s why in this book we’re going to focus on what clothing choices you need to make in order to dress to impress, attract and seduce men.
So, without any more delay, let’s get started with teaching you everything you need to know to dress the way men desire for you to dress!
Have You Ever Been In These Situations Before?
The picture probably says it all but for the sake of clarity, I’ll explain in detail! Have you ever had a situation where you’re going out somewhere, maybe it’s first date or a second date, or perhaps just a social event and you’re stuck there trying to figure out what on earth you should wear? It’s probably even more annoying when the man you’re attracted to is going to be there and now, there’s even more pressure on you to wear something that’ll impress him. You sit there wondering and pondering for hours, asking all your girlfriends if they’re around exactly what you should wear and what you look good in.
The problem is, you need to be asking your male friends as they are the ones who would know what makes you look sexy and attractive. Don’t worry if you don’t have male friends that up to the task, that’s what I’m here for! Throughout this book, you’re going to learn the most important rules you need to follow when deciding what to wear when your priority goal is to impress and attract men. I’ll even talk about what you should wear to seduce men when you’ve reached that point in your relationship if you know what I mean!
Before we move on, one thing I want you to understand and remember is that you aren’t alone in this situation! There are women all around the world who struggle with their clothing choices when it comes to trying to impress and attract men. I’ve been asked so many times and I’ve answered the question just as many times. I decided that creating this eBook would be the easiest way to answer this question in the future and help more women out! It’s clearly working since you’re reading it now to solve your own problem with trying to figure out what to wear!
Anyway, let’s not waste any more of your time and move on. In the next few chapters, we’ll discuss some of the ground rules you need to know before actually learning what men want women to wear!
Wear Something You Feel Confident And Comfortable In But Don’t Be Afraid To Leave Your Comfort Zone
This is rule number one and 100 percentage the most important rule of them all. Listen to me, you could wear the sexiest outfit in the world, but if you aren’t confident and comfortable in it, men will see this from a mile away and they won’t be impressed or attracted to you at all. That’s just how it works.
The best case scenario from that is that men will approach you with the intention of getting a one night stand out of you. If that’s what you’re looking for then I guess it’s perfectly fine for you to not be comfortable and confident in what you’re wearing but I highly doubt that’s what you’re looking for since you’re reading this arrticle!
The point I’m trying to make is that when you’re trying to decide what to wear, you need to make sure you aren’t going to spend the rest of the evening while you’re out and about looking at yourself constantly and wondering whether or not you look sexy and if men are taking notice.
Beautiful women deal with themselves before they leave the house so that they no longer have to focus on their appearance once they’re in the eyes of the world of men. If I haven’t already made it clear, men do not like it when women are constantly checking themselves to see if they are looking attractive, it’s completely unattractive because it shows your insecurities.
This doesn’t mean you can’t look in the mirror every nowand then, but there’s a difference between a quick check up and a look into the mirror because you’re uncomfortable and not confident with what you’re wearing!
Now, let me hit this point deep into your brain so you don’t forget it. It’s more important that you wear something you comfortable and confident in, then it is to wear the sexiest outfit in the world. Here’s an example, men love lingerie, they find it sexy and attractive and it definitely impresses them. Does that mean you should wear lingerie out in the street with nothing else on? No, because you probably wouldn’t be comfortable with it, unless you’re a lingerie model that is!
Even if you were to do that, men will probably look at you and then immediately see the uncomfortableness in your face and then that attraction and sex appeal is immediately gone. If they still seem interested then it’s very likely that all they want is to get you to bed.
Remember, you being confident and comfortable with what you’re wearing is much more important that what you’re actually wearing. It’s like they say, it’s not what you wear, but how you wear it! (I’m sure someone has said that at some point in life and I didn’t just make it up!). However, don’t use everything I just said as an excuse not to tiy and get out of your comfort zone! I know it seems like I’m contradicting myself, but let me explain. Let’s say you’re the type of girl who always rocks jeans and t-shirts and never wears dresses. If you’re going to a club that’s going to be full of people then it’s probably not the best time for you to jump out of your comfort zone completely and bust out a dress, unless you’re suddenly booming with confidence or have adapted the ‘YOLO’
(You only live once) lifestyle.
Let’s say on another day, where it’s a hot summers day and you’re meeting your friends in the park for a picnic, well this would be an ideal time to try out a dress. Why? Because there’s so much less pressure on you, after all, it’s just a day out in the park. Once you start developing confidence with new clothing items, be it dresses or skirts, then you can start wearing them to more social events where you would want to meet and attract men. The key here is balance. You have to learn to balance out being confident and comfortable with getting out of your comfortable zone to improve yourself and how you dress in order to impress and attract men. Timing and scenario are key, choose the right time and scenario to jump out of your comfort zone one step at a time and eventually you’ll be confidently in pretty much everything you wear. You’ll be one of those girls that just seem to be able to rock everything and still look damn sexy. Trust me, you can get there.
Now, don’t worry if you aren’t at that stage yet, you obviously aren’t since you’re currently reading this book. In a later chapter, we’ll discuss the must have items in your wardrobe and they range from every day clothing such as t-shirts and jumpers to cut out dresses and short shorts.
Believe it or not, men are attracted to a wide range of clothing items and sometimes a simple t-shirt paired with the right shorts is much sexier than a full on dress. The thing to take away from this, is although right now you aren’t that girl who can pull off anything and still look sexy, you will be eventually and until then, there’s still a whole load of things you can wear that you’ll be confident and comfortable in and still impress and attract men! Don’t let this be an excuse to not leave your comfort zone, though! (I know I sound like a broken record but it’s so important I have to reinforce it into your long term memory!)
Now that you understand this rule, let’s move onto the next rule!